{"id":638,"date":"2011-01-10T14:20:00","date_gmt":"2011-01-10T21:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/?p=638"},"modified":"2011-01-06T22:24:53","modified_gmt":"2011-01-07T05:24:53","slug":"ways-to-turn-around-a-bad-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/2011\/01\/ways-to-turn-around-a-bad-day\/","title":{"rendered":"Ways to Turn Around a Bad Day"},"content":{"rendered":"

We all have awful days. Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project<\/a>, shared many ways to deal with a terrible day.<\/p>\n

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  1. Resist the urge to \u201ctreat\u201d yourself.<\/strong> Often, the things we choose as \u201ctreats\u201d aren\u2019t good for us. The pleasure lasts a minute, but then feelings of guilt and other negative consequences just deepen the lousiness of the day.<\/li>\n
  2. Do something nice for someone else.<\/strong> \u201cDo good, feel good\u201d \u2013 this really works. Be selfless, if only for selfish reasons.<\/li>\n
  3. Distract yourself.<\/strong> You may be much better able to cope with the situation after having had a bit of relief. Watching a funny movie or TV show is a great way to take a break, or re-read beloved classics of children’s literature.<\/li>\n
  4. Seek inner peace through outer order.<\/strong> Soothe yourself by tackling a messy closet, an untidy desk, or crowded countertops. The sense of tangible progress, control, and orderliness can be a comfort. This always works for me \u2013 and fortunately, my family is messy enough that I always have plenty of therapeutic clutter at hand.<\/li>\n
  5. Tell yourself, \u201cWell, at least I\u2026\u201d<\/strong> Get some things accomplished. Yes, you had a horrible day, but at least you went to the gym, or played with your kids, or walked the dog, or read your children a story, or recycled.<\/li>\n
  6. Exercise is an extremely effective mood booster \u2013 but be careful of exercise that allows you to ruminate.<\/strong> For example, walking can provide uninterrupted time to dwell obsessively on your troubles.<\/li>\n
  7. Stay in contact.<\/strong> When you\u2019re having a lousy day, it\u2019s tempting to retreat into isolation. Studies show, though, that contact with other people boosts mood. So try to see or talk to people, especially people you\u2019re close to.<\/li>\n
  8. Things really will look brighter in the morning.<\/strong> Go to bed early and start the next day anew. Also, sleep deprivation puts a drag on mood in the best of circumstances, so a little extra sleep will do you good.<\/li>\n
  9. Remind yourself of your other identities.<\/strong> If you feel like a loser at work, send out a blast email to engage with college friends. If you think members of the PTA are mad at you, don\u2019t miss the spinning class where everyone knows and likes you.<\/li>\n
  10. Keep perspective.<\/strong> Ask yourself: \u201cWill this matter in a month? In a year?\u201d<\/li>\n
  11. Write it down.<\/strong> When something horrible is consuming my mind, I find that if I write up a paragraph or two about the situation, I get immense relief.<\/li>\n
  12. Be grateful.<\/strong> Remind yourself that a lousy day isn\u2019t a catastrophic day. Be grateful that you\u2019re still on the \u201clousy\u201d spectrum. Probably, things could be worse.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    We all have awful days. Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project, shared many ways to deal with a terrible day. Resist the urge to \u201ctreat\u201d yourself. Often, the things we choose as \u201ctreats\u201d aren\u2019t good for us. The pleasure lasts a minute, but then feelings of guilt and other negative consequences just deepen the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[57,49,43],"class_list":["post-638","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-business","tag-business-strategy","tag-creative","tag-desired-communication"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/638","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=638"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/638\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":639,"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/638\/revisions\/639"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=638"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=638"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.deansmailing.com\/rationalmarketing\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=638"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}